The Fallible Man Podcast
The Fallible Man Podcast, your home for all things Man, Husband and Father. We provide content to help men become the men they want to be. Our content, is dedicated to Men striving to reach their full potential in every aspect of their lives. Men are critical to society and the world at large. It doesn‘t matter where you are in your journey, we know that you are critical to those around you. Whatever role you fill at this moment is important and we are dedicated to helping you grow into the Man you want to be! Hang out with us and spend sometime building your tool box so that you can find out just how far you can go!
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When David Arms was young his father's absence and lack of involvement leaves him unsure of his manhood. As a father he decided to do something different with his sons. A new tradition is born, and lives are changed. We take a look into what we have lost from times gone by and what we might should reinstate from the eyes of a Father and Son.
"It's every father's responsibility to tell his son at the appropriate age: 'Son, I just want you to know I no longer consider you to be a boy, but in my eyes, I see you as a man now. And that if every father in this country did that for their sons, then this country and this world would be a much better place because boys would not need to prove their manhood to anybody else.'" – Steven Arms
Steven Arms is the co-author of the book Milestone to Manhood: A Father and Son's Journey to a Meaningful Rite of Passage. He is an advocate for meaningful rites of passage in modern Western culture, having experienced the positive impact of his own rite of passage as a 13-year-old boy. Stephen Arms was born and raised in California, and moved to Oregon to pursue a relationship with his future wife. A father of two, he was always interested in understanding how things work and pushing his body to its limits. We dive into rites of passage, which his father had organized for him when he was 13. This meaningful event gave Stephen confidence in his identity, and provided the trust and security needed to share his doubts and questions with his father when he was in college. Thanks to this rite of passage, Stephen was able to find his faith again and continue his path to becoming a virtuous, masculine man.
We look at and discuss how Rites of Passage could impact men for the better in modern society. Do rights of passage have a place in modern society?
In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. What is the importance of a rite of passage in modern Western culture?
2. What does it mean to be a man in a boy's life?
3. How can a rite of passage positively shape a boy's masculine identity and faith?
4. Is this something to consider with your sons or daughters?
Resources: https://www.milestonetomanhood.com/
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Fallible Man Coaching Services:
If you need some help conquering your goals, building a plan and seeking the life you want to live you can find me at www.thefalliblmean.com/coaching and schedule a discovery call and work with me directly.
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Friday Jan 20, 2023
Friday Jan 20, 2023
We never want to see our kids go through difficult times. If we could protect them from every bump in the road, we would. Sadly, crises do happen, and you’re going to have to dig deep to help your kids through difficult times.
Thankfully, kids are resilient, and there are ways to help them through this. As a parent the most effective thing you can do is model how to deal with a crisis and instill an effective process in them.
On Today’s show we will explore 6 tips that can help you as you work through this process with your children. We can’t avoid all the bad things in life, they will experience unpleasant things but with these 6 tips and the devoted parent you are trying to be, your kids will come though it all okay.
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Fallible Man Coaching Services:
If you need some help conquering your goals, building a plan and seeking the life you want to live you can find me at www.thefalliblmean.com/coaching and schedule a discovery call and work with me directly.
Sponsors:
Grow YOUR Show: The Easy Button for Podcasters
Have you thought about starting a podcast to grow your business or even as a hobby? Then you need to go talk to my friend Adam Adams. I trust him and so you should you!
https://growyourshow.com/
Ghost Bed
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Wednesday Jan 18, 2023
Wednesday Jan 18, 2023
Kevin Palmieri, an "entrepreneur" determined to transform his story, discovers that consistency is the key to achieving his goals, but must confront his own human conditioning to overcome the challenge.
"I do believe at a deep level that human beings are consistent creatures, just not always in the proper direction. So if you identify as the type of person who is not consistent, do you hit the drive through every day on the way to work? That's a consistent behavior. It's just not consistent with your goals. So I think that's an interesting part for humans is I do believe we are consistent creatures."
Kevin Palmieri is an entrepreneur and self-improvement enthusiast who believes in the power of consistency to achieve goals. He advocates for creating small, sustainable steps to build habits and using public accountability and potential loss to stay motivated.
Kevin Palmieri was an entrepreneur who had little knowledge of what to do. His business partner helped him to develop systems and habits to practice every day to help him in his business, health, wealth, and love. To maintain consistency, Kevin started to wake up every day and check off these five habits he had set for himself before he went to bed. He realized that humans tend to be creatures of habit and can be consistent in the wrong direction if not monitored. To increase his consistency and reach his goals, Kevin implemented public accountability, created necessity through potential loss, and broke down tasks into the smallest possible steps. Through this, he was able to reach his goals more efficiently.
In this episode, you will learn the following:
What is Constancy?
How did podcasting transform Kevin Palmieri's life and career?
Tips to Build Constancy in your Life and Why you should
How you can use Consistency to Change your Life
Where to start right now
Resources:
Special Offer:
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Website:
https://www.nextleveluniverse.com
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/kevin.palmieri.90
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/neverquitkid
YouTube:
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBo--QvPHbGOrO13C0Xyybg
Other episodes you'll enjoy:
Dr. Victor Manzo (The Mindset Coach) - How to Change YOUR Life in 3 Simple Steps!
https://www.thefalliblemanpodcast.com/dr-victor-manzo-the-mindset-coach-how-to-change-your-life-in-3-simple-steps/
Asking a Neuropsychotherapist her Thoughts on Creating a Champion Mindset
https://www.thefalliblemanpodcast.com/asking-a-neuropsychotherapist-her-thoughts-on-creating-a-champion-mindset
The Five F’s, Vulnerability, Priorates and Making Change | Down the Rabbit Hole with Lifestyle Mentor Dai Manuel
https://www.thefalliblemanpodcast.com/the-five-fs-vulnerability-priorates-and-making-change-down-the-rabbit-hole-with-lifestyle-mentor-dai-manuel
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Register for our Live or Virtual Conference “The Phoenix Men’s Conference”
https://www.thefallibleman.com/thephoenix
Fallible Man Coaching Services:
If you need some help conquering your goals, building a plan and seeking the life you want to live you can find me at www.thefalliblmean.com/coaching and schedule a discovery call and work with me directly.
Sponsors:
Grow YOUR Show: The Easy Button for Podcasters
Have you thought about starting a podcast to grow your business or even as a hobby? Then you need to go talk to my friend Adam Adams. I trust him and so you should you!
https://growyourshow.com/
Ghost Bed
Actually get a GOOD night’s sleep! Go see my friends at https://www.ghostbed.com/pages/fallible and use the code “fallible” for 30% off your order! It’s what I sleep on and what I count on!
Friday Jan 13, 2023
Friday Jan 13, 2023
There is a lot of debate in the world about what Men are. People arguing over masculinity being male and other stupid debates.
Today we are getting down to a core tenant of being a man. We have discussed on this channel that being male is matter of biological sex, being masculine is a combination of physical, emotional, mental and spiritual traits and characteristics. Being a Man in society, being recognized as a man by other men is a matter of being male, masculinity, behavioral traits, and core principles.
You can be a boy, you can be male, but you have to work to be a man.
In this episode of The Fallible Man Podcast we break down one crucial element, Integrity. That’s right, it’s that important that it is it’s own topic today. In the show we look at
The Definition of Integrity
Why it Matters
Things to work on to live with Integrity
Because you’re NOT a Man without it
The video version of this show is available on YouTube after 3 PM the day it is released https://www.youtube.com/@thefalliblemanpodcast
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Register for our Live or Virtual Conference “The Phoenix Men’s Conference”
https://www.thefallibleman.com/thephoenix
Fallible Man Coaching Services:
If you need some help conquering your goals, building a plan and seeking the life you want to live you can find me at www.thefalliblmean.com/coaching and schedule a discovery call and work with me directly.
Sponsors:
Grow YOUR Show: The Easy Button for Podcasters
Have you thought about starting a podcast to grow your business or even as a hobby? Then you need to go talk to my friend Adam Adams. I trust him and so you should you!
https://growyourshow.com/
Ghost Bed
Actually get a GOOD night’s sleep! Go see my friends at https://www.ghostbed.com/pages/fallible and use the code “fallible” for 30% off your order! It’s what I sleep on and what I count on!
Wednesday Jan 11, 2023
Wednesday Jan 11, 2023
Life is boring when we only talk to people we see eye to eye with; I like to talk to people to see their side. Dan Stillman considers himself an advocate for positive change for men, what do you think?
Life Coach Dan Stillman is a certified Positive Psychology Practitioner, Transformational Mindset, and Integrative Medicine Health Coach. Who is trying to change men's perspectives
Join us as we discuss:
- Positive Psychology
- The "Truth" about Masculinity
- Thinking Traps
and more
Find Dan at
Websites:
https://holisticwellcare.coach
https://yomenga.com
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/HolisticWellCareCoach
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/holisticwellcarecoach
Twitter:
https://twitter.com/danny_stillman
The video version of this show is available on YouTube after 3 PM the day it is released https://www.youtube.com/@thefalliblemanpodcast
and Rumble! https://rumble.com/c/c-2176422
Register for our Live or Virtual Conference “The Phoenix Men’s Conference”
https://www.thefallibleman.com/thephoenix
Fallible Man Coaching Services:
If you need some help conquering your goals, building a plan and seeking the life you want to live you can find me at www.thefalliblmean.com/coaching and schedule a discovery call and work with me directly.
Sponsors:
Grow YOUR Show: The Easy Button for Podcasters
Have you thought about starting a podcast to grow your business or even as a hobby? Then you need to go talk to my friend Adam Adams. I trust him and so you should you!
https://growyourshow.com/
Ghost Bed
Actually get a GOOD night’s sleep! Go see my friends at https://www.ghostbed.com/pages/fallible and use the code “fallible” for 30% off your order! It’s what I sleep on and what I count on!
Friday Jan 06, 2023
Friday Jan 06, 2023
If you have ever heard your partner say “Thanks for taking care of that for me” and translated it to “Your getting lucky tonight” or less extreme, She said “I had a really hard day today with my coworker” and you thought “I will fix it” Then you may need an AI that translates your partner in real time. Don’t have one? uh oh…
Let’s face it, for being the same species men and women speak 2 very different languages and it often gets us into a lot of trouble in our relationships. Communication between the sexes is frustrating because we want to be on the same page as our partner, but we usually aren’t. The majority of the time saying “Am I Translating What You Say Accurately” Is a bad idea.
So what do we do?
In this Episode of The Fallible Man Podcast you will…
Test you translation skills
Learn 4 Keys to Translating your Partner better
Learn to understand what she is actually looking for when she ask you things
Identify some of the knowledge you should be leaning about your partner to help your relationship more
The video version of this show is available on YouTube after 3 PM the day it is released https://www.youtube.com/@thefalliblemanpodcast
and Rumble! https://rumble.com/c/c-2176422
Register for our Live or Virtual Conference “The Phoenix Men’s Conference”
https://www.thefallibleman.com/thephoenix
Fallible Man Coaching Services:
If you need some help conquering your goals, building a plan and seeking the life you want to live you can find me at www.thefalliblmean.com/coaching and schedule a discovery call and work with me directly.
Sponsors:
Grow YOUR Show: The Easy Button for Podcasters
Have you thought about starting a podcast to grow your business or even as a hobby? Then you need to go talk to my friend Adam Adams. I trust him and so you should you!
https://growyourshow.com/
Ghost Bed
Actually get a GOOD night’s sleep! Go see my friends at https://www.ghostbed.com/pages/fallible and use the code “fallible” for 30% off your order! It’s what I sleep on and what I count on!
Wednesday Jan 04, 2023
Wednesday Jan 04, 2023
"Don't make my mistake. You don't need to. Don't do it. Don't buy that narrative. Take a step, the right step. Social media will tell you what the right step is. Ask yourself, what's your right step? You know what the right step is, in my opinion. Taking a step. Participate with it. Raw, honest. Go for it."
James Heppner is a human and average, ordinary person who helps successful people stop self-sabotage, raise their standards, and participate with unshakable confidence. He is the host of the Weekly Wins and Losses podcast and an avid biohacker.
James Heppner was paralyzed with fear and indecision for two and a half years, until he realized that he had to take a step to reach his potential and be the man he wanted to be. He started biohacking and experimenting with different methods to reach his goals and eventually learned to listen to his body and trust himself. Now, James enjoys his biohacking and takes care of himself, He also coaches high achievers and lives life to it’s fullest because he discovered some simple truths to making the most of his life.
In this episode, you will learn the following:
1. The benefits of utilizing the wins and losses of our lives for EQUAL gain
2. What are the benefits of biohacking and pushing oneself further?
3. How do we make the mindset shift required to value our losses as much as our wins.
4. 3 steps you can implement right now to start utilizing the wins and losses
James Heppner:
www.jameshepner.com/quiz
Website: https://www.jamesheppner.com/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/JamesMegHeppner
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXg9eAPhuWBPVlEv8qiObvg
The video version of this show is available on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@thefalliblemanpodcast
and Rumble! https://rumble.com/c/c-2176422
Register for our Live or Virtual Conference “The Phoenix Men’s Conference”
https://www.thefallibleman.com/thephoenix
Fallible Man Coaching Services:
If you need some help conquering your goals, building a plan and seeking the life you want to live you can find me at www.thefalliblmean.com/coaching and schedule a discovery call and work with me directly.
Sponsors:
Grow YOUR Show: The Easy Button for Podcasters
Have you thought about starting a podcast to grow your business or even as a hobby? Then you need to go talk to my friend Adam Adams. I trust him and so you should you!
https://growyourshow.com/
Ghost Bed
Actually get a GOOD night’s sleep! Go see my friends at https://www.ghostbed.com/pages/fallible and use the code “fallible” for 30% off your order! It’s what I sleep on and what I count on!
Friday Dec 30, 2022
Friday Dec 30, 2022
It’s that time again…the annual promise that 2023 will be your year!
While these yearly ambitions are exciting and motivation is high at the beginning of the year, by month two, many of these goals tend to trickle off.
The simple truth is you’re going about new year’s resolutions all wrong. Every body decides they are going to do some thing like lose weight or quit smoking, take a up a new hobby, go to the gym, make more money. On this Episode of The Fallible Man Podcast we’re going to share exactly what is missing from the this process and how you can achieve it..
In this Episode
The hidden mistake that derails most new year’s resolutions
3 steps to avoid this mistake
3 steps for effective goal setting
The video version of this show is available on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@thefalliblemanpodcast
and Rumble! https://rumble.com/c/c-2176422
Register for our Live or Virtual Conference “The Phoenix Men’s Conference”
https://www.thefallibleman.com/thephoenix
Fallible Man Coaching Services:
If you need some help conquering your goals, building a plan and seeking the life you want to live you can find me at www.thefalliblmean.com/coaching and schedule a discovery call and work with me directly.
Actually get a GOOD night’s sleep! Go see my friends at https://www.ghostbed.com/pages/fallible and use the code “fallible” for 30% off your order! It’s what I sleep on and what I count on!
Shatter the Mold!
I believe in a world… where men rise to the potential that they were created for instead of the mediocrity that they are taught to embrace, a world where their lives are filled with purpose, meaning and mission.
Men that are filled with purpose, meaning and mission change the world in radical ways! We cross oceans that were thought to be unending. We rise up against evil and injustice and bring it to heel at the feet order and law. Cities are built, Discoveries are made and lives are improved with community and legacy. Homes are prioritized and families thrive.
I know that you are frustrated, tired, discouraged, and disillusioned. You followed the rules, you did all the things you understood that you were supposed to do. You followed the dream with faith that you would reach the promise land of happiness and prosperity.
Instead you struggle to be the man you want to be, you feel empty and used; you struggle to have anything left over for your family and you have even less for yourself. You are discouraged and even despised for stepping out of the Mold I know, that was my life too.
I followed the plan, I played the game, I achieved the middle income dream that we sell as the ultimate goal. I have the fence, the dog, the kids, the car and the wife and am punching the clock daily at a job I hated, a job that doesn’t care about me. I do the job even on days when I would rather punch the boss than the clock.
There is more! that is the question that weighed on me and I know it weighs on you so let me tell you now. There is so much more! You are the same flesh and blood as Achilles, Alexander the Great, Theodore Roosevelt, Martin Luther King, and Leif Erikson.
It is time for us to stop living in the shadows of the mold, no more fear, no more settling, no more playing the game. It is hard because the mold is familiar so it is comfortable and safe. It is time to walk in the light of who you are made to be. You are meant to shine because you were made to impact the world.
Marianne Williamson reminded us in her Poem “Our Deepest Fear
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness. That most frightens us.
"We ask ourselves: who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God.
"Your playing small does not serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
"We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.
"And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we're liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
- Marianne Williamson
We surrendered to the lie we were told. We conformed to the mold that was supposed to make our lives great and instead shackled us to mediocrity and emptiness. There is no time when Men were men, there is only a myth to make us feel small.
Are you ready to Shatter the mold! Are you hungry for a life of purpose, meaning, and mission that leaves you fulfilled and satiated? Are you tired of feeling numb?
You are going to make that change through the process of incremental growth, people fail because they go too big and take aim at large life rearranging changes. You won’t fail, you are going to make daily micro changes that are barely noticeable to start with. Don’t underestimate the power of small changes. Focus on 1% changes and expect that they will feel even smaller than that some times.
I know it works because it has already radically changed my life.
I am not rich or famous, I still work at the same job that I don’t hate anymore, I am a work in daily progress.
Let me tell you what I do have. The best relationship I have ever had with my wife, 2 kids that always want to be with me, mental and emotional peace, a MISSION and a direction. Deep sleep because I am fulfilled and a growing business that brings me joy and purpose and will someday replace that job. Does that sound like something you are interested in?
- You need to develop a growth mindset
You don’t need a pill, an additive, a program or something from an infomercial. You have to change your perspective and get past your limiting beliefs about YOU. You do that with a growth mindset. This is an inward change because that is what you can control.
If you stopped right there, tomorrow would be the start of a glorious new beginning for you. It would change your life radically just in the first step. It will not be easy, but it will be worth it. But if you are ready to go deeper, then stay with me
- You need to embrace your Masculinity
I am not talking about gorillas beating their chest and grunting like a Tim Allan bit. Masculinity is NOT a toxic quality, the lack of masculinity in men is.
Masculinity in men is what makes us want to climb mountains, conquer new horizons, protect our loves ones, leave a legacy and excel at the things we do.
Masculinity requires both vulnerability and strength, emotions and logic, Fear and Courage. It is a part of you and you cannot reach your full potential without embracing who you are. It is what is driving you to desire greatness that is an inherent nature of men
- You must build a Code; then live by it.
A code is a list of values and beliefs that guide you. Every great organization or group that you are familiar with has one. The Navy SEALs, the Rangers, the FBI, Vikings and Even knights have or had a code. You will find ours listed on our website.
Codifying your unshakable beliefs and core values will give your life a radical direction shift. Decisions will become easier and clearer; they align with your code, or they don’t. It will inform every decision, action and move you make.
These 3 steps inward will inform change in every facet of your life, you will start to become the Man, Husband and father you have always wanted to be through daily incremental growth.
Does that sound good to you? Are you ready to shatter the mold, leave the mediocrity, emptiness and disillusionment behind and live a fulfilling purpose driven life as the man you were born to be?
Let’s talk, come speak with me and let’s find out what’s next for you! I want you to reach your fullest potential and would love to walk with you on that journey. I am excited to see what amazing things you will do!
Be better tomorrow because of what you do today!