The Fallible Man Podcast
Welcome to the Fallible Man Podcast, your ultimate destination for men seeking to improve themselves as husbands, fathers, and individuals. Our mission is to provide valuable content that inspires men to unlock their full potential and excel in every aspect of their lives. As we believe that men play a crucial role in shaping society and the world, we are committed to empowering men at any stage of their journey. Our show features insightful conversations with leading experts, authors, and entrepreneurs who share practical tips and actionable strategies that can help you achieve your goals. Tune in on Wednesdays for our guest shows, and on Fridays for shorter and concise solo episodes. Join us and start building your toolbox today to unleash your full potential and take your life to the next level!
Episodes
Episodes
Wednesday Jan 31, 2024
Lead & Parent From the Heart: Build Lasting Family Connections
Wednesday Jan 31, 2024
Wednesday Jan 31, 2024
Join Juan Alvarado Jr. as he dives into effective leadership principles for strengthening family relationships. Drawing from his experience as a father and Gallup-certified strengths coach, Juan shares insights on leading from your natural talents and intentionally nurturing connections. Discover why extreme parenting styles fall short and how to take the middle ground. Learn to discipline through love, give your family voice, and transform home environments. See how identifying motivations and tailoring your approach can resolve tensions. Take away communication strategies and actionable tips for being more present - from making your spouse smile daily to planning regular date nights. Get perspective on seeing your kids' strengths and learning their love languages. Inspire your family by leading by example.
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"If I'm not intentionally getting better, then I might be accidentally getting worse." - Juan Alvarado Jr
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In this episode, you will be able to:
Embrace intentional living for a more fulfilling life.
Uncover the power of leveraging strengths in relationships.
Master effective leadership and parenting for lasting impact.
Cultivate a positive family environment for harmony and growth.
Learn to be present and mindful with your family for deeper connections.
My special guest is Juan Alvarado Jr
Juan Alvarado Jr, a former military serviceman and a passionate family man, brings a wealth of experience to the discussion on effective leadership and parenting. As a certified Gallup strengths coach, Juan's expertise lies in identifying and leveraging an individual's natural strengths. With a background in managing programs for youth and training staff, Juan has a unique insight into the dynamics of leadership and the significance of intentional action in family life. Through his own journey of growth and self-discovery, Juan shares valuable insights on how to cultivate stronger family connections and lead from a place of authenticity and purpose. His diverse experiences and dedication to personal and professional development make him a valuable voice in the realm of effective leadership and parenting.
The key moments in this episode are:00:00:00 - Be Intentional with Love 00:01:10 - Introduction to the Fallible Man Podcast 00:01:47 - Getting to Know Juan Alvarado Jr 00:06:26 - Impactful Purchase and Family Fitness 00:09:18 - Overcoming Failure and Seeking Help 00:13:28 - Juan Alvarado's Story 00:14:29 - The Power of Intentionality 00:16:59 - Resolving Workplace Challenges 00:23:51 - Understanding Clifton Strengths 00:27:19 - The Importance of Empathy in Leadership 00:29:45 - Applying Strengths to Relationships 00:30:57 - Parenting from Two Extremes 00:31:13 - Establishing a Foundation for Family Relationships 00:37:01 - Honesty and Honor in Parenting 00:39:39 - Effective Communication with Children 00:42:44 - Leading in Marriage 00:49:54 - Prioritizing Marriage 00:51:47 - Applying Strengths to Relationships 00:52:38 - Being Intentional with Family 00:55:32 - Transforming the Temperature 00:59:45 - Future Plans and Events 01:01:39 - Be Intentional with Love
Guest Links:
https://weraizethebar.kartra.com/calendar/bn2lIyzjBxdT
https://weraizethebar.com/
https://www.facebook.com/RaizeTheBarLLC
https://www.instagram.com/raizethebarceo/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/rtb-juan/
https://www.youtube.com/@raizethebar
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-relevant-development-podcast/id1603011942?uo=4
Friday Jan 26, 2024
Practical Wisdom: 10 stoic habits to practice in 2024
Friday Jan 26, 2024
Friday Jan 26, 2024
Embark on a transformative journey with "The Fallible Man Podcast" as we present the ultimate guidebook for personal mastery amidst the tumultuous landscape of 2024. Consider this episode a collection of cheat codes for a more purposeful life, diving into the timeless Stoic principles that can illuminate your path through uncertainties. Host Brent introduces 10 Stoic habits that serve as life hacks for making 2024 way better, revealing practical wisdom often realized too late in life.
In this episode, Brent, your guide through practical wisdom, explores Stoic habits like living in the present, accepting what you can't control, and choosing your perspective. From self-discipline and embracing change to material pursuits and managing emotions, each habit is a key to unlocking personal growth and fulfillment. As we navigate through ancient wisdom that still resonates today, join us on this journey towards a more resilient, purpose-driven life. Be inspired by a heartfelt listener review, reflecting the profound impact of this podcast on self-improvement and healing. Take a moment to reflect on these Stoic habits – they're not just words; they're your everyday life superheroes. Add a dash of these timeless ideas to your 2024 and be better tomorrow because of what you do today. Thanks for hanging out with us on "The Fallible Man Podcast." U 🎧✨ #StoicWisdom #LifeHacks2024 #FallibleManPodcast
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Wednesday Jan 24, 2024
Supporting Your Spouse Before, During and After Menopause
Wednesday Jan 24, 2024
Wednesday Jan 24, 2024
Ever wondered how to support your partner through menopause? In this episode of The Fallible Man Podcast Kristin Mallon explains how the ups and downs of perimenopause and postmenopause can affect women. Lower estrogen levels can bring on a range of physical and emotional shifts, like trouble sleeping, mental fog, and body aches. Understanding these changes and being proactive about seeking help can really make a difference in how women handle this phase of life. It's not just about physical support, but being there emotionally and mentally too. We asked the questions you need to know.
"If your woman in your life is between the ages of 35 to 60 and she's struggling with something, it could be hormonal, and I would just really encourage you to encourage her to get it checked out." - Kristin Mallon
In this episode, you will be able to:
Understand the impact of menopause on women's lives.
Discover successful role models for navigating menopause.
Support your partner through the challenges of menopause.
Explore the hormonal changes experienced during menopause.
Learn ways to maintain intimacy during the menopausal phase.
My special guest is Kristin Mallon
Kristin Mallon, a certified nurse midwife and co-founder/CEO of Femgevity Health, has garnered over 25 years of experience in women's health. Specializing in feminine longevity, she is dedicated to providing comprehensive telemedicine solutions and personalized treatment plans to support women in their 30s, 40s, and beyond. With a strong focus on optimizing women's health and lifespan during menopause, Kristin's expertise is rooted in her extensive background in private practice and her commitment to women's health. As a leading figure in the field, her wealth of experience and passion for women's health make her a credible source for understanding the challenges and offering support through menopause.
The key moments in this episode are:00:00:00 - Venturing into the Uncomfortable 00:01:08 - Introducing Kristen Mallon 00:03:22 - Defining Kristen Mallon 00:05:17 - Influential Women and Role Models 00:13:37 - Embracing Femininity 00:14:47 - Uncovering Personal Facts 00:19:39 - Diving into Menopause 00:20:34 - Kristen's Impressive Background 00:26:41 - Understanding Menopause 00:27:41 - Understanding Menopause 00:30:51 - Changes in Women's Lives 00:38:35 - Impact of Stress on Menopause 00:41:12 - Intimacy and Menopause 00:42:40 - Overlapping Issues in Postpartum and Perimenopause 00:43:34 - Impact of Hormonal Changes on Intimacy 00:46:30 - Supporting Women through Menopause 00:54:27 - Effective Communication Strategies 00:56:40 - The Role of Medical Specialists 00:56:52 - Seeking Menopause Specialists 00:59:26 - Supporting Intimacy During Menopause 01:05:52 - Mental Support for Postmenopausal Women 01:06:15 - Femgevity and Telemedicine
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https://www.facebook.com/FemGevity
https://www.instagram.com/femgevity
https://www.linkedin.com/company/femgevityhealth/
https://twitter.com/FemGevity
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Friday Jan 19, 2024
From Red Pill to Real Connection: A New Approach to Love
Friday Jan 19, 2024
Friday Jan 19, 2024
What's up, guys? Brent here from the Fallible Man Podcast, bringing you a no-nonsense episode about love and relationships. Ever heard of MGTOW? We're cutting through the drama and getting straight to the point.
In this episode, I'm giving you some solid advice without the fancy talk. We're talking about being a king in training (no need to have it all figured out), not expecting someone else to fix your stuff, and why being friends first is a game-changer. No need for complicated stuff—just practical advice.Â
So, if you're tired of the negativity around love and want some real tips on making relationships work, hit play. Let's change the story about love together. This is Brent, signing off from the Fallible Man Podcast—where we keep it real about all things man. Catch you on the flip side! 👊
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Wednesday Jan 17, 2024
Calm Under Pressure: Communication Strategies for High-Stakes Situations
Wednesday Jan 17, 2024
Wednesday Jan 17, 2024
If you're feeling frustrated and misunderstood in your relationships, then you are not alone! You may be trying to express yourself clearly, but finding that your words are often met with confusion or conflict. Instead of feeling heard and valued, you may be experiencing tension and distance in your interactions. But there is hope - by understanding the power of your words, you can transform your communication and build stronger connections.
“Watch what you say and how you say it and be strategic with your words. Words are powerful”. - Darrell Williams
In this episode, you will be able to:
Master the Art of Effective Communication: Unlock the key to building stronger connections and relationships through powerful communication skills.
Elevate Your Communication Game with Mentoring: Discover the secret to improving your communication style and leaving a lasting impact on others.
Harness the Power of Words: Uncover how the right words can influence, inspire, and motivate those around you.
Decode Communication Styles for Better Understanding: Gain insight into different communication styles and how to navigate them for harmonious interactions.
Sharpen Listening Skills and Cultivate Empathy: Learn how active listening and empathy can transform your communication, fostering deeper connections and understanding.
My special guest is Darrell Williams
Darrell Williams, hailing from Compton and later serving in the White House communications agency, offers a unique perspective on the power of words. His journey from the military to supporting three presidents and three vice presidents has shaped his exceptional communication skills. Darrell's commitment to mentoring and his deep understanding of the impact of communication, both professionally and personally, make him an invaluable source of insights into the influence of our words.
The key moments in this episode are:00:00:00 - The Power of Words 00:02:00 - Getting to Know Darrell 00:11:03 - Sponsor Message 00:11:53 - Darrell's Journey 00:14:44 - Special Military Assignments 00:17:13 - Importance of Mentors 00:19:36 - It's About the Team 00:20:40 - The Power of Communication 00:28:55 - Handling Pressure 00:30:25 - Adapting to the Fast-Paced Environment 00:30:52 - Coping with Stress 00:32:26 - Stepping Up During 9/11 00:34:55 - Importance of Effective Communication 00:41:13 - Improving Communication Skills 00:43:54 - Importance of Communication in Different Relationships 00:44:43 - Importance of Personality Assessments 00:45:50 - Seeking Mentorship for Communication Skills 00:46:57 - Action Steps for Improving Communication 00:49:48 - Impact of Words and Communication
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https://speakerhub.com/speaker/darrell-williams
https://www.allianceseminars.org/
https://www.facebook.com/allianceseminars
https://www.linkedin.com/in/darrellwilliams/
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Friday Jan 12, 2024
Friday Jan 12, 2024
In this episode, we delve deep into the often-hidden struggle of negative self-talk. Before you dismiss it, did you know that even the elite Navy SEALs address this issue in their Warrior Toughness Program? Today, we're not just talking; we're arming you with practical strategies to combat this invisible enemy and start rewiring your mindset. Join us for a journey into Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and the art of getting our heads right.
We breaks down the concept of negative self-talk and how it affects every aspect of our lives. It's more than just holding yourself accountable; it's about combating the overly critical, downright abusive trash talk we throw at ourselves..
🔍 What's Covered in This Episode 🔍
What is Negative Self-Talk?
Understanding the habit of self-criticism and pessimism.
Recognizing the storm of negativity in men's minds.
How it Affects You
Unpacking the significant impact on mood, confidence, and success.
Exploring the ripple effects on mental well-being and relationships.
How to Stop Negative Self-Talk
A detailed game plan to break the cycle.
Practical steps, including self-compassion, awareness, and changing thought patterns.
Reprogramming Your Neural Pathways
Scientifically proven techniques to create new habits.
Positive affirmations to boost confidence and motivation.
Additional Strategies
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Wednesday Jan 10, 2024
Mastering Love After 40: Men’s Dating Mindset Shifts | Krista Melanson
Wednesday Jan 10, 2024
Wednesday Jan 10, 2024
Empower yourself as a man by challenging traditional dating norms and embracing a slow and steady approach to finding lasting love with the insightful and passionate dating coach, Krista Melanson, as she encourages you to redefine your dating profile, reevaluate your partner preferences, and embrace self-belief in the pursuit of genuine connections.
The episode of The Fallible Man Podcast features dating coach Krista Melanson, who shares her personal experiences and expertise, highlighting the significance of authenticity in dating. Krista's insights into the challenges of online dating and the impact of unrealistic expectations offer valuable perspectives for male listeners seeking to improve their dating experiences. By emphasizing self-belief, self-love, and the importance of building a strong foundation in relationships, Krista's down-to-earth approach provides relatable and practical advice. Her genuine nature and relatable experiences make this episode essential listening for men navigating the complexities of modern dating. Krista's guidance offers a fresh perspective, inspiring a positive shift in mindset and approach to finding genuine connections.
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"Believe in yourself and the ability to find love in your life. You're worthy. You deserve it. And there's somebody out there for you. Don't ever give up". - Krista Melanson
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My special guest
Krista Melanson is an experienced dating coach with a wealth of practical insights into the nuances of modern dating. Drawing from personal encounters and her partner's experiences, Krista delivers valuable and relatable advice. Her candid approach and relatable anecdotes make her a credible and trusted resource for individuals seeking genuine connections in today's dating landscape. Through her journey of overcoming challenges, Krista inspires others to adopt a mindset of authenticity and confidence in their pursuit of meaningful relationships.
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In this episode, you will be able to:
Master the art of genuine connection and attract the right partner with dating coach advice for men.
Discover the power of authenticity in dating and unlock meaningful relationships.
Crush unrealistic dating expectations and find fulfillment in genuine connections.
Build a solid foundation in relationships and create lasting bonds with your partner.
Cultivate self-belief and self-love for a more fulfilling and successful dating life.
The key moments in this episode are:00:00:00 - Believe in Yourself and Finding Love 00:00:42 - Introduction to the Fallible Man Podcast 00:09:38 - Challenges of Modern Dating 00:14:44 - Personal Experience with Online Dating 00:15:42 - The Frustrations of Dating and Deceptive Pictures 00:20:57 - Shifting Mindset and Self-Acceptance 00:23:14 - Human Connection vs. Online Interaction 00:28:17 - Challenges of Dating After 40 00:29:59 - Belief in Finding Love 00:32:05 - Rethinking Height Requirements in Relationships 00:33:43 - Unrealistic Expectations in Dating 00:34:27 - Openness to Change and New Experiences 00:35:06 - Tips for Successful Dating 00:43:19 - Setting Up Short Initial Meetings 00:47:18 - The Slow Burn of a Beautiful Relationship 00:49:54 - Love at First Conversation 00:51:50 - Three Steps to Improve Your Dating Situation 00:55:25 - AC/DC Ban and a Powerful Message
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Website: https://krista-marie.com/
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Friday Jan 05, 2024
Join the 6%: Mastering the Art of Goal Achievement
Friday Jan 05, 2024
Friday Jan 05, 2024
Welcome to the Fallible Man Podcast, your go-to destination for all things Man. In this episode, host Brent delves into the world of goal-setting, shedding light on the disheartening statistics surrounding New Year's resolutions and providing you with actionable steps to ensure you join the exclusive 6% who conquer their goals. From setting SMART goals to embracing non-outcome-based daily actions, Brent lays out a roadmap for success. Don't be part of the 80% drifting through life—tune in, take notes, and let's make 2024 your most accomplished year yet.
🎙️ Listen to the full episode for a deep dive into goal-setting and success strategies!
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đź“Ś Timestamps:
00:00 - Reality is Depressing for most People
02:14 - The Cliff Notes Version
03:10 - A little Deeper
04:29 - Go Big
05:20 - Details Matter
05:54 - Visualize
06:37 - Small Pieces
07:30 - Focus on This
09:20 - Ambitious Friends
10:32 - Accounta-Buddy
11:53 - Wrap up and Recap
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Shatter the Mold!
I believe in a world… where men rise to the potential that they were created for instead of the mediocrity that they are taught to embrace, a world where their lives are filled with purpose, meaning and mission.
Men that are filled with purpose, meaning and mission change the world in radical ways! We cross oceans that were thought to be unending. We rise up against evil and injustice and bring it to heel at the feet order and law. Cities are built, Discoveries are made and lives are improved with community and legacy. Homes are prioritized and families thrive.
I know that you are frustrated, tired, discouraged, and disillusioned. You followed the rules, you did all the things you understood that you were supposed to do. You followed the dream with faith that you would reach the promise land of happiness and prosperity.
Instead you struggle to be the man you want to be, you feel empty and used; you struggle to have anything left over for your family and you have even less for yourself. You are discouraged and even despised for stepping out of the Mold I know, that was my life too.
I followed the plan, I played the game, I achieved the middle income dream that we sell as the ultimate goal. I have the fence, the dog, the kids, the car and the wife and am punching the clock daily at a job I hated, a job that doesn’t care about me. I do the job even on days when I would rather punch the boss than the clock.
There is more! that is the question that weighed on me and I know it weighs on you so let me tell you now. There is so much more! You are the same flesh and blood as Achilles, Alexander the Great, Theodore Roosevelt, Martin Luther King, and Leif Erikson.
It is time for us to stop living in the shadows of the mold, no more fear, no more settling, no more playing the game. It is hard because the mold is familiar so it is comfortable and safe. It is time to walk in the light of who you are made to be. You are meant to shine because you were made to impact the world.
Marianne Williamson reminded us in her Poem “Our Deepest Fear
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness. That most frightens us.
"We ask ourselves: who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God.
"Your playing small does not serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.
"We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.
"And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we're liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others."
- Marianne Williamson
We surrendered to the lie we were told. We conformed to the mold that was supposed to make our lives great and instead shackled us to mediocrity and emptiness. There is no time when Men were men, there is only a myth to make us feel small.
Are you ready to Shatter the mold! Are you hungry for a life of purpose, meaning, and mission that leaves you fulfilled and satiated? Are you tired of feeling numb?
You are going to make that change through the process of incremental growth, people fail because they go too big and take aim at large life rearranging changes. You won’t fail, you are going to make daily micro changes that are barely noticeable to start with. Don’t underestimate the power of small changes. Focus on 1% changes and expect that they will feel even smaller than that some times.
I know it works because it has already radically changed my life.
I am not rich or famous, I still work at the same job that I don’t hate anymore, I am a work in daily progress.
Let me tell you what I do have. The best relationship I have ever had with my wife, 2 kids that always want to be with me, mental and emotional peace, a MISSION and a direction. Deep sleep because I am fulfilled and a growing business that brings me joy and purpose and will someday replace that job. Does that sound like something you are interested in?
- You need to develop a growth mindset
You don’t need a pill, an additive, a program or something from an infomercial. You have to change your perspective and get past your limiting beliefs about YOU. You do that with a growth mindset. This is an inward change because that is what you can control.
If you stopped right there, tomorrow would be the start of a glorious new beginning for you. It would change your life radically just in the first step. It will not be easy, but it will be worth it. But if you are ready to go deeper, then stay with me
- You need to embrace your Masculinity
I am not talking about gorillas beating their chest and grunting like a Tim Allan bit. Masculinity is NOT a toxic quality, the lack of masculinity in men is.
Masculinity in men is what makes us want to climb mountains, conquer new horizons, protect our loves ones, leave a legacy and excel at the things we do.
Masculinity requires both vulnerability and strength, emotions and logic, Fear and Courage. It is a part of you and you cannot reach your full potential without embracing who you are. It is what is driving you to desire greatness that is an inherent nature of men
- You must build a Code; then live by it.
A code is a list of values and beliefs that guide you. Every great organization or group that you are familiar with has one. The Navy SEALs, the Rangers, the FBI, Vikings and Even knights have or had a code. You will find ours listed on our website.
Codifying your unshakable beliefs and core values will give your life a radical direction shift. Decisions will become easier and clearer; they align with your code, or they don’t. It will inform every decision, action and move you make.
These 3 steps inward will inform change in every facet of your life, you will start to become the Man, Husband and father you have always wanted to be through daily incremental growth.
Does that sound good to you? Are you ready to shatter the mold, leave the mediocrity, emptiness and disillusionment behind and live a fulfilling purpose driven life as the man you were born to be?
Let’s talk, come speak with me and let’s find out what’s next for you! I want you to reach your fullest potential and would love to walk with you on that journey. I am excited to see what amazing things you will do!
Be better tomorrow because of what you do today!